Good Gossip: A Tool for Positive Change
In the world today, there is so much anger, distrust and suspicion. I am tantalized with the concept that good gossip is an instigator for both self-betterment and small inroads into our world today.
“Good Gossip” is the art of spreading positive, affirming stories about others to build community, encourage kindness, and inspire connection. Unlike harmful gossip, which erodes trust and damages reputations. Good gossip uplifts and reinforces the values we want to see in our lives and in those around us.
At its heart, good gossip is simply talking about someone —preferably in their absence — in a way that honors who they are or what they’ve done. It helps set a tone of appreciation and reminds people that goodness is noticed and shared. Your job is to find so you can share!
Good Gossip:
- “Did you hear that Frank helps his neighbor take out the trash every week? He doesn’t make a big deal about it, but it’s such a thoughtful habit.”
— This spreads a story of quiet service and models how small acts can build stronger communities. - “I saw Susan patiently explaining the new app to three people after the meeting. She’s really making technology more accessible for everyone.”
— This highlights someone’s kindness and helps others see her as a helpful resource. - “Margaret’s always the first to check in on new neighbors. It makes a difference — they feel welcome right away.”
— This promotes a culture of inclusion and values those who go the extra mile.
By choosing to circulate uplifting narratives, we encourage a ripple effect of respect and kindness. In a world where negativity often travels fast, good gossip reminds us that hope and encouragement can be just as contagious — and far more powerful. So go be powerful today share some GOOD GOSSIP!