Don’t Pet Your Peeves
We all have little things that irritate us—a rude driver, a noisy neighbor, a slow checkout line, the over-chatty friend, or someone who always seems to complain. Your problem isn’t having peeves. The problem is petting them. “Resentment is the poison you are drinking in hopes the other person dies.” “Petting your peeves” means replaying annoyances over and over in your mind. These become rocks you carry in your emotional bag. Every time you revisit them, your body responds as…