Shoulding Yourself?
Psychotherapist, Karen Horney identified the “tyranny of the should”: as dividing our personalities into an ideal self and a real self being, the human tendency to tell ourselves what “what we have to do” even if it doesn’t fit into our values or goals. The” Shoulds” : The Solution: Self Compassion Practice Self Compassion to squelch your “Shoulds” whenever they arrive and, repeat daily!